Archive for April, 2010

April 25th, 2010

Mothers

I got this in my email inbox from a friend and felt like sharing it with the many amazing mothers out there…

Mothers:

Real Mothers don’t eat quiche;
They don’t have time to make it.

Real Mothers know that their kitchen utensils
Are probably in the sandbox.

Real Mothers often have sticky floors,
Filthy ovens and happy kids.

Real Mothers know that dried play dough
Doesn’t come out of carpets.

Real Mothers don’t want to know what
The vacuum just sucked up.

Real Mothers sometimes ask ‘Why me?’
And get their answer when a little voice says,
‘Because I love you best.’

Real Mothers know that a child’s growth
Is not measured by height or years or grade…
It is marked by the progression of Mummy to Mum to Mother…

The Images of Mother:

4 YEARS OF AGE – My Mummy can do anything!

8 YEARS OF AGE – My Mum knows a lot! A whole lot!

12 YEARS OF AGE – My Mother doesn’t know everything!

14 YEARS OF AGE – My Mother? She wouldn’t have a clue.

16 YEARS OF AGE – Mother? She’s so five minutes ago.

18 YEARS OF AGE – That old woman? She’s way out of date!

25 YEARS OF AGE – Well, she might know a little bit about it!

35 YEARS OF AGE – Before we decide, let’s get Mum’s opinion.

45 YEARS OF AGE – Wonder what Mum would have thought about it?

65 YEARS OF AGE – Wish I could talk it over with Mum.

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows
And the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows!

April 22nd, 2010

Here’s to the “crazy” ones….

The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do…

April 22nd, 2010

If you’ve never failed – you’ve never lived!

April 21st, 2010

Is the REAL ME fearful and doubtful?

Essentially, everything we do is a function of our confidence in ourselves. Every single action and aspect of our lives has to be practiced and learned. From the moment we are born we build our confidence one step at a time and learn to master everything we need to know. We take chances, we put ourselves out there, we try new things and we learn to walk and talk, ride a bike, read, drive a car, connect and communicate with people, and improve and master our jobs, careers and relationships.

There are always moments in our lives where we feel uncertain and unsure about our abilities to do and learn new things, even though we’ve learned, changed and evolved many times before, over and over again. But, without taking chances, and even signing up for a few guaranteed falls and bruises, a human being wouldn’t learn to walk in the first place. We are made to be braver than we realize and stronger than we often dare to imagine, yet as we get older we sometimes forget how powerful we really are and we let ourselves believe we are small and weak instead of big and brave. We tell ourselves it’s better to ‘play it safe’, yet when we choose to stay in our ‘bubble of protection’ we tend to struggle so much more than we would if we’d simply let it burst! Staying in our bubble keeps us attached to our fears and doubts, and repeatedly circulating with them instead of embracing positive change and evolution.

The only thing that can essentially hold us back in life are limiting, self-defeating fears and doubts. Holding onto doubts and fears such as; What will people think? What will they say? What if they don’t like me? What if they don’t approve of me? What if they don’t love me? What if I can’t do it? What if I’m no good at it? What if I’m not good enough? What if I do it wrong? What if, what if, what if…. Holding onto these fears and doubts will rob us of our lives.

April 20th, 2010

Children See – Children Do

There is no job more powerful than that of a Parent!

April 14th, 2010

What is Nirvana?

All suffering comes from wrong perceptions.

“The practice of mediations and of ‘looking deeply’ has the purpose of removing wrong perceptions from us.”

“If we are able to remove our wrong perceptions we will be able to be free from the the afflictions and suffering that always arrive from wrong perceptions.”

“Nirvana is FREEDOM! Feedom from VIEWS. All views are wrong views.”

April 8th, 2010

Sometimes you got to let IT win!

This morning, I woke up to two little cuddle bugs resting their warm, little heads on my shoulders. They’d snuck into my bed in the early hours of the morning right after their dad had left for work. After embracing them and this beautiful moment for awhile, and giving them lots of hugs and kisses I told my daughter we had to hurry on out of bed so we’d get ready for school in time. “Just five more minutes mom…” she pleaded and pulled the covers up to our shoulders.  In my mind I quickly calculated the “opportunity cost” and realized that giving into her plead would very likely make us late for school as we were already running a bit behind… yet it was an easy sell.

Some of my favorite moments of being a mom is waking up exactly like this and getting to be this close to my children. It isn’t every day that I have both of them by me, feeling calm and relaxed at the exact same time, and still resting in the peaceful haziness of a good night’s sleep. There is something magical about being all snuggled up close under the same big cover. It feels safe and comforting, and so genuinely loving. It is almost as if nothing else exists; we are in our own little world.

Suddenly, our cat decided to jump on the bed to join the party and in that same instant, seemingly out of the blue, my little three-year-old gets up and roars as loud as he can imitating a dinosaur. Our cat, in absolute astonishment goes flying up into the air and does an astounding backwards flip before it lands on the floor. We all broke out laughing and then my little three year old joker reenacted the entire scene about three times to his sister’s pure joy and delight. Five minutes turned into fifteen and as hard as it was to step out of this magic, Ms. Logical Mom showed up and made sure we’d get going. And, so we went, off to seize a new day, a good 20 minutes late, yet feeling so happy and joyous, and still laughing about our cat’s acrobatic talents.

As I rest in the joyous memory of that beautiful morning I can’t help but realize how easy it would have been to miss out on that magical moment. Everything that brings love, joy and happiness into my life was right there in front of me. All I had to do was say YES to IT.

IT… is LIFE in a nutshell. The actual core of IT, the magic of your life that often comes at no cost at all yet brings you invaluable joy and happiness. We all want IT but we all too often tend to be too busy to get to IT.

April 7th, 2010

Healthy Child Healthy World

April 2nd, 2010

Your TIME…

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” -Steve jobs

“Time is free, but it’s priceless. You can’t
own it, but you can use it. You can’t keep
it, but you can spend it. Once you’ve lost it
you can never get it back.” -Harvey MacKay